Well this past weekend quiet a few celebrities have gotten hitched.Most noted was Martin Lawrence and his longtime love Shamicka Gibbs and Carmelo Anthony finally wed his lady love LaLa Vasquez. Both couples have years and kids invested into the relationship,so the question is how long should one wait to marry or should they marry at all after they have children?I think we have to do whatever works for us,however when your in the public eye,people tend to want you to do things on their time rather than your own.There are not many old fashion people these days.Before you marry then have children.Then you got pregnant,had a shotgun wedding before the baby was born.Now you have the children,and when the kids go of to college,you make it official.What's funny about this (not really) is when our children follow our path we become angry with them as though we set a better standard.We have to raise the bar.If we don't want our children to smoke,Then we shouldn't smoke,Not every situation can be changed,yet it is our responsibility to set a standard and stick to it.
LaLa played it smart in a sense,she had the one baby and waited.If he didn't put a ring on it,then she wouldn't have had to worry about a house full of kids.Shamicka was the one who stuck by Martin when he had his meltdown.I guess after what he went through with his first wife,he wasn't trying to repeat it,but eventually love prevailed and all is well in their world! Once again Congrats to the happy couple's and I pray that they have a blessed union.
Please note that things posted on this blog are my opinions,They are not in anyway said to be mean spirited,I', juz sayin!
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