Size really does matter

Todays topic was,What would you do if someone said your sex was bad.The response was raw and uncut!Next I asked does size really matter,out of all the post only one brave man responded.I think we should be able to express ourselve freely and not hide behind how someone is going to react to it,with that eing said,Im going to open my site to Adults only and hopefully we will get some real responses from peopel who sick of the bullshyt and wanna keep it real!!I also learned its ok to be proud of what you have,but noone else has too

Really?!?!?!

Ok last week there was an issue on or at the bus stop concerning my daughter.Well I walked to the bus stop to see what the hellz was going on.Not much was said,talked to the school and moved on.So this morning Tarance walked Shania to the bus stop and something hit me,go down there,well thank goodness for motherly insticts cause it was an all out fuss feast!This lil heffa down there cutting up and Tarance cutting up with her.She going on and on on how she gonna sue us,say whut?I normally don;t say anything to people's kids but this lil girl needs a hug or a shake!Not only was she a compulsive liar,she is a big trouble maker.It is so sad.She's only in 7th grade and she cutting up like that!We are loosing our children to soon to violence and not paying attention to them.It's bad enough that Big Momma nem is raising our kids for us,but for them to go through all this unneccessary drama is just too much for words!

Divalicious

Depression

A lot of people have a difficult time adaptin and fitting into life.Some have no support system and they end up spiralling out of control and often time depression leads to reckless behavior.For years I have gone through being sad and wondering why I had to endour most of the things that I've gon through in life.I was always able to help others deal with their problems and maybe it was because I had or was going through the same things as they were.It's hard when you go through life hearing you were not wanted and being shown that you did not matter.Once I got over feeling hurt and neglected,other things arised in my life and added more to my stress.I fought with myself for years thinking if I told or said anything about how I felt,then I would be deemed crazy.Well it's not how the world views you,it's how you view yourself.Depression can ruin your life and others around you if you dont seek help,I was told many times to pray,and I did,then I decided that God gave special people special gifts to help those on need.With that being said,tomorrow is the first step to my recovery.I am hoping to bury the past at last and live a normal and stable life.I have accepted that I have gone through these things only to help someone else in need.It's not what you've been through,it's how you got through it.

Divalicious

Where they do that at?

Watching the news this morning and I cant figure out what is wrong with some people.So here is a new segment called: Where they do that at?


10. Man tries to sneak gun in courthouse through his breifcase

9. Children vandlize their school with fire exstinguishers

8. Robbers using a U-Haul as a get away car

7. Renting a house to store stolen merchindise

6. Turning the O-rena into a casino

5. The loud behind kids that like to walk from the Brook and hang out in front of my house and talk loud early in the morning

4. Alarm goes off and you don;t have to get up for another hour

3. Smoking and taking a dump

2. Doctor admitting they rigged up something n your spine

1. Getting shot in the parking lot at Cleo's and no one knows what happen to you

Bonus: Man self proclaims himself a Prince and decided to piss off the neighbors by hanging clothes in the front yard,all over the yard.Then proceeding to build sand castles as well.They say its crap and he needs to clean it up,he says it's fine art and they should appreciate it.

Happy Friday Ya'll

Divalicious

You wanna do what?!?!

What posses men to use the corny pick up lines that they use?I have heard my share and I can't believe they had the nerve to use them.Here are the top 10.

10. Heaven must be missing an angel

9. Help, somethings wrong with my eyes - I just can't take them off you.

8. Girl, you gotta be tired coz you been runnin through my mind all day

7.Do you know karate? Cos damn it honey, your body is really kickin

6.Were you arrested earlier? It's gotta be illegal to look that good.

5. Gimme five minutes and I'll have you speaking in tongues

4. I'll rock your world

3. I'll give you a nickel if you tickle my pickle

2. I'll have you walking bowlegged

1. I'll drank your bathwater

Where is the bleach and the holy water?

Divalicious

Tell me why u mad?

I wanna know why people,especially females,always drank a big glass of hateraid before the get ready to go somewhere fun?Ever make plans to go out wit cha girls and there's just one that always complaining or acting like she all that and everything is  beneath her?You know the one when you say something,she been there and done that,and so on and so forth.How bout the one who gets no play cause she too picky so she drank her hateraid when the fella's start paying attention to you and not her.
I just wanna know why u mad?I mean you can't get upset because you having a bad night,you may wanna change your attitude.No one wants to be around a kill joy,and alot of the time people are just looking for someone to hang with and you never know what kinda friendship may blossom out of that.
I spent so many years by myself because I can't deal with selfish people.The lord has placed to women in my life who seem to be on the same page and level as me.And it looks like the begining of a long and beautiful friendship.In the words of the O.D.(Original Diva),"Birds of a feather,flock together".I've spent to  many years around unhappy people and people who tore me to pieces,I am ready to live the life I was destined to live,I just wanna know,why u mad?

Divalicious

In Da Corner

Well I couldn't wait till Friday so here is this weeks top 10 people who got sent to the corner:

10. Samuel Jackson for giving Monique the side eye while she was giving her acceptance speech

9. Howard Stern for being mean about Academy Award Nominee Gaboury Sidibe weight.

8. DMX for getting arrested for the millionth time and his wife for writing a tell all,do we really wanna know?

7. The Limo Driver who accused Naomi Campbell for hitting him then apologized to her.....yeah I know

6. Mel B for shaving the heads of her children,and her's for that matter,that is so not the look boo!

5.The Judge who decided that my tax dollars should be spent on Casey Anthony's defense!Bad enough I gotta help pay for her trial and this heffa ain said squat yet!

4.The people that can't tell the diffrence between real and fake

3. Kobe Bryant and the Lakers,Why ya'll come in our house and wanna act a fool?That's why ya'll lost!

2. The people who get upset over a facebook status

1. The nasty heffa who was shaving her vajayjay while driving on the highway and the fool who was riding in the car with her holding the steering wheel while she did it!

Juz Stop it Please!!

I never could figure out why women are so negative to each other.We belittle and disrespect each other more than anyone else can.If we see someone in the same outfit as us,she a "hoe or a bitch with my outfit on".No she obvious has the same taste as you so instead of being disrespectful,pay her a compliment.We often see a woman sirround by the fellas and once again she a "bitch or a hoe" cause she around the fella's.She might be around them because women like you make it hard to be around other women.Some women are so messy that if they were a house,they would be condemend.Yomen are more judgemental then men and we through awya great relationships with male and females because of our unwillingness to forgive as well as the ability to let go.We walk around with baggage from 30 years ago and we can't understand why people no longer want to be involved with us.When you find yourself surround by snakes,you have to search within yourself to find out why you are attracting these people.You also have to figure out if you like this type of behavior,I mean no sense in changing something your happy with.Just remeber when the snake strikes,you either kill it or catch it and try to train it again.But in the end if we don't hold each other up,why should anyone else?

Divalicious

What Da Hale!!!

Ok so my son has decided that school is not for him,so he says,"Mommie,I want to go get my GED and get a job,school is just not working  out for me".So I say are you sure this is what you want to do?Yes he says,so Im like ok,we will take the steps to make it happen.Im glad you want to get your diploma though and not just drop out and do nothing.So that's what he's going to do,now here's why Im having a "What da Hale moment".Why these kids keep ranging my doorbell at 8:30 am?!?!Did he not tell them his plan?And why do they say "wake him up" when William says he's sleeping?If I could run to the door I would,and when I was done they would cross the street when they pass my house!I can't even take my meds in peace.What da hale is wrong with these kids.They come to the door demanding someone come to the door.Bubba gonna get em one day and I can't wait!!!

Divalicious

Up and Coming Events

Black College Reunion: March 19-21,2010 Daytona Beach Florida
BET's Spring Bling: April 9-11,2010 Riviera Beach Florida
Black Bike Week:May 27-31,2010 Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
Urban Week(Memorial Day Celebration):May 27-31,2010 South Beach,Florida

What happened to loyalty?

Back in the day we used  to have friends that we would say "we down like four flat tires".Now they can't walk away fast enough before telling everything you talked about to someone else.Even though it's wrong,if you was tipping out on your mate,they would cover for you,now they telling on you and sleeping with your other half as well.What happened to the days where friendship meant something?What happened to the days when people said "I got your back",they meant it?So many people have turned into plants,they plant themselves into your life only to find out your business and then spread it all over.We need to get back to the days of "What we talk about is between me and you".We need to learn how to pick and chose real friends over hanger ons.We need Loyalty!

Divalicious

Whut da Hale!!!

Ok I had to go to the doctor yesteday for my annual exam.While I was there I got some bad new but that's not why Im sharing.I wanna know who da hale invented the paper towel vest that they claim is a gown,and the want you to put it on backwards.And who cuts out the pattern?I'm juz asking cause one size does not fit all!Then they give you a paper towel sheet.Are you serious?!?!?

I was asked to get undressed,put on the gown and place the sheet across my lap and the ddoctor would be in shortly.
Ok I did as I was told only to find that the "gown" was a vest and the "sheet" didn't cover nothin but my lap.All my sides were hangin out.Then they had me sitting up there naked for 30 minutes.Um I don't like to be naked by myself  in a strange place with someone tapping on the pipes in the ceiling!And the taps where in sync with the sound tyou hear right before Jason comes in and kills your butt!No ma'am that will not do!

Divalicious

I'm Baaaaaaaaaack

Hey bloggerville,did you miss me?Well I'm having a mid thirties crisis so to speak and well what better way to deal with it then to blog about it.Sometimes talking is the best theropy and it's free!Stay tuned cause I got alot to talk about!

Divalicious