Friends

They say birds of a feather flock together,I have grown not to believe that.I have friends that are the complete opposite of me however we work well together.I'm still trying to figure out if you are a strong independent person,why do you tend to have needy people around you?I mean are you working on a top secret mission to transform them into a stronger person?
I try not to complain,however I end up being the ear for all the other folks that know me to complain too,funny thing is when they are doing well you dont hear from them. But the minute one hair is out of place,your phone blows up 24/7.I don't understand the "friends" that feel the need to one up you either,I mean we are all adults and if you are living a blessed life,then I am more than happy for you.Why can't you be happy for me as I am for you?
If you find out some disturbing new about your friends mate,Im not saying break your neck to lower the boom,but at least find a tactful way to let them know whats going on.So many friendships end because of jealousy.
We must be leery of those who are anxious to become a part of your circle,those who ask a million and one question about your relationship and are more concern about your relationship then the friendship.Some of us are holding on to friendship based on the longevity of the friendship and not the basis of what is going on.

Like most no one wants to be alone,however you have to pick and chose the people that are close to you like you buy a car or a house,its a life changing decision that should not be taken lightly.Not everyone is your friend,some of these people are acquaintances and associates,treat them as such and save yourself a whole lot of grief!