For years I've heard you always need a plan B.Well let me help you with that.Sometimes it takes some people longer to get it together than others.If you don't have the patience to wait for someone to get it together,then you really need to get someone who is already where they need to be. What puzzles me often times is you want your mate to be in this place,but your not.I often hear people say I want a partner who has this, that, and the other, yet they don't have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of.Come to the table with more than a good conversation.Cause at the end of the day we're supposed to be "a helpmate" to our partner,not just the recipient of what ever they have to offer.
Your plan B should always be how you can move forward if and when the relationship is over.You should have things in line that if you need to move on you can.So many get locked into a relationship because they allowed their partner to control every aspect of their relationship,and they end up feeling trapped because they don't have a plan.
Now Im not saying run around plotting the great escape.Im just saying don't get caught slipping.
Nothing last forever and you have to be prepared fpr a rainy day!
So before you try to start creeping around the corner to see whats going on in the neighbors yard,finish what you started,before you get into another relationship and add unneccessary drama into the lives of others!
One of my sisters made a valid point last week when she said "finish the relationship your in,before you start another one".
Divalicious
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